Being different than others being different.
Larry dances next to Sue, so Sue sits very still because she does not want to do whatever Larry will. “It’s easier” she once expressed “to know who not to be; To dress how he has never dressed And stand when he would flee. I may not know just who to be, But I know who I’m not.” Sue’s counsel is enough for me: I’ll be as she has taught. But I’ll go one step e’en past Sue: I’ll buck at Larry’s trend, And I’ll be unlike Susan too and thus my own path wend!